Okay this is short but helpful, hope this could help a lot of guys.
Let’s just say you are in a mall, restaurant or in a bar then suddenly you saw the cutest girl ever that land sight in your eyes, or you saw the one girl that makes your heart beat faster, you saw her smiling and you want to go over to start a conversation. Let me tell you old fashioned pickup lines won’t work at all. Girl’s nowadays are getting smarter on every minute that pass so I have this few simple steps that you can use to start a conversation.
Get Some Balls
- This is the problem of all guys, they don’t have the balls. When you saw the girl that captures your interest you better act fast, don’t stand still and be stiff, you better move your ass up. Every second you waste is reflecting to your chances of knowing the girl.
Be Observant
- Not only that you need to set your eyes on the girl but also pay attention anything surrounding her. Like what she is holding, wearing or even the scent of her perfume. Small details such as those can be very much use as a good conversation starter. It can even help you get some ideas on things that show common interest between the two of you.
Be Leveled
- Be leveled with the girl, if you are the type who is talkative, cheerful or outgoing then start a conversation with a girl that is also the same as you. But this doesn’t mean that you need to narrow down your choices, you are still free to pick any girls you like; my intention on this is for you to get a girl that can be easily approached since you are already leveled with her.
Be Creative
- Start the conversation in a creative manner; Never ever start a conversation with a question that is answerable by yes or no. Always ask something that needs an answer in a form of a statement. You can even use props that is in your surrounding like what she is drinking, how she wore her outfit or even her thoughts about the place.
Be Smarter
- Girls won’t fall into predictable questions; better make yourself unique amongst any guys on the area who has interest on her. Never open questions that can lead into bad scene like asking about her past relationships. Choose your words carefully, coz from the point of approach till the point of having a conversation her eyes and ears are all locked into you.
Smiley
- Lastly a perfect smile is always a good way to start something, it’s better to give a good first impression to a girl before a conversation start in that way she will be comfortable when talking to you
I hope this simple tips can do a lot for you, Every relationship starts with a good conversation so always be ready for it.
