Wazzup Lady Killers, new topic for today, for those of you who doesn't know what makes a girl tick, well I'll give you 3 reasons, considering the fact that it was girl (Jocy) who requested to have a topic like this to be be posted. There are a few particular things that really annoy single,
attractive Filipino Girls. One of the reasons that these things annoy girls is because
they're deal killers.
A girl can like everything about you, but if you do these
things (or even ONE of these things), it can crash your
chances of success.Here are three of the BIG things that single women hate:
Trying to change your Status In Exchange For Her Attention And
Approval
If I had to describe the one single thing that both
annoys girls and destroys a guy's chances, it would be
this.It was a long time to see this particular
pattern, but it's everywhere.
As Guys, in effect, say “Hi, I want your approval
and attention. I'm willing to let you be the one who's
in control… and let you call the shots… and
do anything to please you… if you'll give me your
attention and approval”. But the problem is that girls don't want you to give
up your status and “ manliness”. Girls aren't attracted to guys who act weak and
tentative.
Girls secretly hate it when a guy does something to
demonstrate that he'll give away his power in return
for approval. They hate it! Take a few minutes to think this one over, and maybe
write down the ways that you make this mistake with
women. More importantly, think about how you're going to stop doing it immediately .
Being Too Much Needy, Clingy, And Insecure
When one person “clings” to another
person “psychologically”, the person who is
being “clinged to” resents and rejects the
needy, clingy emotional parasite… This is wuss behavior at its worst.
If as guys is on the phone with a girl we just met,
and she says “Hey, I have to go”, we might
say “Aw, well… um …OK. Um, will you
call me when you get home? ” And an even worse example is when as guy who is so
emotionally insecure that we actually asks a girl to
tell us that we are nice, fun, interesting, etc. “Do you think I'm interesting? ” “Do you think we could ever have a
relationship? ” “Am I your type? ” Girls hate this stuff. It makes them shiver with the
heebie-jeebies. It makes them want to run away.
Fails in Understanding Attraction
This is a huge. Girls can instantly feel it when they're with a guy
who “gets it”. Girls know very quickly if they're talking to a guy
who understands himself and women… and who enjoys
creating and building sexual tension. Girls know if a guy speaks the secret language of
“Sexual Communication”. If he doesn't, then she stops all communication on
that level.
If he does, then it continues. attraction Isn't A Choice. Attraction is an emotional and physical response… and
you can't “convince” a girl to feel it with logic,
gifts, and niceness. Attraction is the result of a girl meeting a guy who
understands how attraction works… and who knows what to
do in each specific situation to progress to the next
level. The problem with attraction, and with success with girls in
general is that the things you need to do to be successful are not obvious. They're “counter intuitive”, in many cases. In other words, they're the opposite of what you'd think
would make sense. You have to do things like create tension… stop doing
something that she likes… give her time to miss
you… etc.
Now that I've shared these three mistakes, you need the next
piece of the puzzle. You need to get an education on how
attraction works for women… and the right things to do up
front to give her those emotional/physical feelings inside. Stay Tune for more stunning guidelines for the coming days.
