I know we have our own likings and opinions on what we
prefer about women but this time I’m talking about the general facts what guys
want. It took me awhile to make this blog entry because this shit is serious. If
you are decided to end the game and go for a married life than there are
certain things you need to consider.
Why should men settle for women that only offer appearances?
That won’t feed you at all. Some women still believe that their beauty is
enough to keep men happy. Those days are long gone. Men no longer settle for
such raw deals.
Nowadays, professional and successful men are in hot
pursuit of smart, funny, independent, spontaneous, and very sexy women. Why
shouldn’t we? After all, don’t we deserve better than women whose only talent
is tossing their hair from one shoulder to the other?
If you are in a relationship right now, STOP! For a
moment and analyze your current situation. Is your girlfriend a keeper or
should you just sweep her away?
Look friend if you are only dating women for their looks,
only to find out that the stupid and bimbo-ness
side of them, then it’s time to look for the five crucial qualities of
the right girlfriend.
Independent and
Strong
Women who have balanced lives, interests of their own and
who don’t depend on men are the one who can attract men without effort.
Desperation to find men and get married, are qualities that will drive most men
away from potentially adequate relationships.
A Space and
Freedom Giver
Another requirement for most men is that their girlfriend
gives them space to pursue outside interests. Relationships should not be like
a 24/7 convenient store. Clinginess is the quickest route to relationship
disasters. Too much space could even be a sign of rockiness is relationships,
from a lack of love, interest or attraction, but freedom allows men to grow as
individuals and gives them breathing room, which is much appreciated.
A Calm Girl
There is no reason for men to be afraid that their
girlfriends will freak out on a daily basis. The two scenarios men hate the
most; women crying for no reason, and women acting suspicious. If these
scenarios seem familiar, then get out and don’t look back. Men want women they
can trust. No one wants to be questioned and interrogated by the people that
supposedly love them.
She’s one of the
Boys
Men look for women who not only complement them but share
their interests as well. If she’s going to be your best friend, then why not do
things that you enjoy together? Do some things that the both of you are
interested with.
Adventurous in Sex
Some women think that as long as they have sex from time
to time, their men will be happy. But sexual relations should not be one-sided;
women cannot lay back and expect men to do all the work. If that’s the case,
boredom will set in very quickly. Nothing keeps men more interested than women
with cast sexual ranges. Women should make their man feel wanted and desired;
they should make sweet love one night and be wild the next. If women keep men
guessing, they’ll come back for more always. Of course, men have to keep their
women guessing too. Remember, it takes two to tango.
These are just some of the few things you need to
consider when looking for the right one. I’m not suggesting that you dump your
girlfriend right now; All I’m saying is that maybe you should try to think
about what you need in a relationship to fulfill your needs.
I know I’ve been in a lot of relationships, and if I were
to choose the path to have a good relationship that is a keeper for a long time
than everything I said above will be my guide. Hope this small article can help
you change the game. Till next time, Ja ne~
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Special Thanks to MJ and Stella for the interview also
for the Milk Teak J
